THIS WAS A POST BY CJ, AUTHOR OF "CJ IN TIME. "
IT IS BEAUTIFULLY STATED.
POIGNANT AND THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH.
THANK YOU CJ!
Fibromyalgia really isn't an invisible illness if you just take the time to listen, if you take the time to try and understand, and if you truly take the time to believe what the fibro patient is saying. Yes, we do seem "normal". We "don't look sick." Aha, but yes, we do. Look in our eyes and you'll see it...pain that never ends, fatigue that goes deep inside to our bones.
You will also see perseverance. You will see determination. You will see someone that doesn't have a low tolerance for pain. No, just the opposite, you will see someone who has incredible tolerance because we live with this pain and fatigue all day, every day.
We wake up with the pain. We wake up feeling like we never slept -- chances are we didn't get much restorative sleep. We are awakened 10--20--30 times a night. We go through our day with the pain and the fatigue, watching the clock to see how long it is before we can take more pain medication. We may sneak a nap because we can't keep our eyes open one more minute.
Fibro really isn't invisible. Not if you take the time to listen. Not if you take the time to care.
So, Happy Fibromyalgia Awareness Day!
To all of you that live with this scary and daunting disease, bless you. Bless you all ten times over! Fibro's not invisible and neither are we. Please, just take the time and have the patience to care.
Hugs,
meCJ, in time
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